Relationships - Joel Brass

One Hundred Per Cent Accountability For Your Love Life: The Pre-Requisite to Discovering Your Love Code

January 12, 2015 July 2, 2016Relationships 0

This blog is the first of two parts. It will introduce you to what I have found to be the single most important factor in truly healing and transforming your love life from what you have known it to be to what you want it to be – 100 % accountability. The next blog will discuss your Love Code – that which can fully explain to you why your love life has turned out the way it has to date. Your Love Code is the almost totally unconscious blueprint or formula that you are operating with (see it as an unconscious and broken compass in your mind) that you have been employing from your earliest years for finding and receiving love or, at least what you have thought love to be. If you would like to understand your Love Code more fully read my upcoming blog and go to my…

Relationship Is An Individual Sport

December 20, 2014 November 2, 2015A Course In Miracles, Relationships 3

Relationship is an individual sport. It may look like a team sport but it is really an individual sport. It has almost nothing to do with the other person. Yet although what happens in it has almost nothing to do with the other person, you will tend to place much more responsibility and even blame the other for the state of the relationship, especially when you don’t like the state of the relationship. Yet it is my contention based on my 30 years as a relationship therapist that it is your own truths, issues and dynamics that are determining almost everything. Now don’t get me wrong. If the other person in your relationship were reading this, I would say exactly the same thing to him or her. What I am postulating is that in any relationship, two people independent of each other, are in their own right, fully and completely accountable for what…